Of course we’re not always perfect, but sometimes it IS the other people that need to change. However it is often the case that no matter how much we try to get them to see reason and change, they just don’t.
What do we do then? Well, as we know ranting and complaining certainly won’t help-although it can temporarily feel quite good to do this, so why not try this new solution from NLP; how to change how you feel about them so you can come to that relationship in a more empowered and positive way.
After all relationships don’t exist in a static way, they are a constantly changing process of how two or more people currently relating to each other, once we see it like that it becomes easier to recognise how we can influence the course of that relationship for the future.